To become a better man, to achieve a better future
Begitu banyak hal di dunia ini yang dikeluhkan, padahal hal tersebut indah dan tidak semua orang berkesempatan untuk merasakannya.
…dan salah satu hal yang indah tersebut adalah, bangun pagi.
Syukuri yang ada pada dirimu, kawan. Jangan disia-siakan :)
Love is… overcoming obstacles together!
See more of HJS at: http://tapastic.com/episode/6177
and that’s what love is
Bila ada seorang yang agamanya baik, datang kepadamu melamar, maka terimalah lamarannya. Bila tidak, niscaya akan terjadi kekacauan dan kerusakan besar di muka bumi.
— HR At Tirmidzi
(sindiran buat akhwat-akhwat yang seneng ‘PHP’ :p baru denger ceritanya dari blog ini)
oh begini toh ketika tombol itu dipencet. dari dulu punya kipas yang kayak gini tapi belum pernah tau mekanismenya seperti apa. Alhamdulillah :)
(Source: cineraria, via engineeringisawesome)
Bolehkah menyatakan kerinduan? Perasaan kepada seseorang?
Tentu saja boleh. Tapi jika kita belum siap untuk mengikatkan diri dalam hubungan yang serius, ikatan yang bahkan oleh negara pun diakui dan dilindungi, maka sampaikanlah perasaan itu pada angin saat menerpa wajah, pada tetes air hujan saat menatap keluar jendela, pada butir nasi saat menatap piring, pada cicak di langit-langit kamar saat sendirian dan tak tahan lagi hingga boleh jadi menangis.
Dan jangan lupa, sampaikanlah perasaan itu pada yang maha menyayangi. Semoga semua kehormatan perasaan kita dibalas dengan sesuatu yang lebih baik.
Jenis-jenis Gombal ala Bang Tere Liye
(Gombal kelas internasional)
Bilang ke pacar ‘Aku cinta kamu karena Allah, dek.” Pacar? Sambil pegangan tangan? Mesra2an. Aduh, nggak banget deh. Jangan bawa2 Tuhan utk urusan pacaran yg jelas melanggar banyak peraturan Tuhan. Malaikat saja mungkin gerah berada di sekitar, mungkin pergi ratusan kilometer, menjauh.
Ketika kita menyukai seseorang, bukan berarti kita pasti akan suka selamanya. Ada masa-masa rasa suka itu berkurang, bahkan hilang sama sekali. Tetapi juga bukan berarti kalau sudah tidak suka lagi, maka selesai begitu saja.
Itulah gunanya komitmen, kepercayaan, yang akan membawa kembali perasaan suka persis seperti pertama kali dulu kenapa kita suka seseorang tersebut, atau malah lebih.
—Tere Lije
*kalimat2 ini tidak bisa digunakan untuk aktivitas pacaran kalian*
Hari ini, entah kenapa selalu ngepo-in tumblr ini dan ini. Entah mengapa, setiap melihat postingan mereka yang mengingatkan pada Yang Maha Kuasa, setiap baca aktivitas mereka, setiap ngeliat senyum mereka, gue jadi ngerasa bahwa hari ini bakalan cerah.
Gue pengen punya semangat seperti mereka :)
"Memiliki buku yang banyak tidak menjamin kita membacanya hingga tuntas, tapi jika ada buku saja susah membaca, apalagi ngga ada."
felixsiauw.com
"Musibah itu, mengecil jika dirahasiakan, membesar jika dikeluhkesahkan, terurai jika diadukan pada Allah, merumit jika diumbar pada manusia."
Salim A.Fillah (via thesuninsideus)
Melegakan… :)
(Source: anginawan, via muhamadrin)
Islamedia - 17 tahun yang lalu, saat masih aktif menjadi penulis buletin dakwah, aku membaca nama pelanggan yang memesan buletin tersebut. Hj. Robiatul Adawiyah, pasti wanita yang sudah tua. Sudah naik haji dan namanya jadul sekali. “Akhi, seperti apa sih ibu Robiatul ini” tanyaku kepada Pak…
(Source: islamedia.web.id)
… dan Allah telah mengajarkan kepadamu apa yang belum kamu ketahui. Dan adalah karunia Allah sangat besar atasmu (QS. 4:113)
Saya mengenal sosok Syafe’I adalah seorang yang rajin beribadah. Di sebuah masjid perkantoran di bilangan Jendral Sudirman Jakarta di mana saya sering bersilaturahmi….
(Source: www4.eramuslim.com)
Whoever comes from a kind and compassionate background will have a tender heart and so such men must bear in mind that their wife is the one who gave birth to his children, takes care of his wealth and maintains his secrets.
So be kind to your wives and openly express your joy for smiling livens the heart and wipes away hatred and praising the wife for her appearance, cooking and adornment wins her heart.
Moreover, Islaam has allowed husbands to lie to their wives in order to increase the love between them.
- Exchanging gifts is the key to winning a heart and is a reflection of ones love.
- Being easy upon ones wife, abandoning ambiguity and bad communication and arrogance are ways to achieve a lasting happy marital life. ‘Umar, may Allaah be pleased with him, said: “A man should be like a child with his wife, happy and easy going, but when he sits with men, he should act as they do.”
- Be an upright and straightforward man and your wife will thereby also improve and become more righteous, by the will of Allaah.
- Do not look at that which is unlawful for you to do so, because the evil consequences of this sin will impact upon your house; Watching women on satellite television causes ones wife to appear ugly and unpleasant, and lowers ones rank in her sight, which is a reason why hearts become distant and love diminishes, which in turn causes conflicts to emerge.
- Deal with your wife as you would like her to deal with you in all areas, because it is natural that she would like you to be with her as you would like her to be with you, Ibn ‘Abbaas, may Allaah be pleased with him, said: “I like to take care of my appearance for my wife just as I would like her to beautify herself for me.”
- Listen to your wife’s criticism with an open mind and heart because the wives of the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam, would to discuss his opinions without him becoming angry.
- Also a husband should not take from his wife’s wealth without her permission, because it belongs to her.
- Treat her kindly and be generous with her and do not be stingy; remember that your wife likes to talk to you regarding all her affairs, so be attentive and listen to her, indeed this is a reflection of perfect manners.
- Never go home with a gloomy face because your children need to clearly see your love and sympathy; be kind to your children and make them enjoy your presence, guidance and instructions and always listen to them. Whenever the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam would see Faatimah, may Allaah be pleased with her, he would say “Welcome, O my daughter!” then he would seat her to his right or left. (Muslim).
Being kind to the members of ones household reflects real manhood, as Al-Baraa’, may Allaah be pleased with him, said:
I entered upon Abu Bakr, may Allaah be pleased with him, in his house; he saw his daughter ‘Aa’ishah, may Allaah be pleased with her, lying down with a fever, so Abu Bakr, may Allaah be pleased with him, kissed her on the cheek and asked: ‘How are you feeling my daughter?’ (Bukhaari).
Helping at home is a sign of ones faithfulness; ‘Aa’ishah may Allaah be pleased with her, was asked what the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam would do while at home, she replied, ‘He was just like any other human being, he would sew his garment, milk the sheep and serve himself.’ (Ahmad).
- Being generous with ones family is the best charity that one can give and time spent with ones friends should not be at the expense of that with ones family, for they are worthier to spend ones time with.
- Never remind your wife with mistakes that she may have made, nor hint about her shortcomings.
- Conceal your problems from the children because it has a negative affect on them and reduces the respect they have towards their parents.
Anger is the cause of all disputes, and the relation between a man and his wife is far too valuable to ruin in a moment of anger; remain silent whenever you become upset and remember that forgiveness is closer to piety and wisdom, ‘Umar, may Allaah be pleased with him, said: “Women should be kept at home and their anger dealt with by remaining quiet.”
The rights of the wife are great and only a noble man will fully honour his wife and respect her. ‘Aa’ishah may Allaah be pleased with her, said: “The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam would always mention Khadeejah, and he would always slaughter sheep, divide them, and then distribute it among her friends, He did this so much that I once said to him: ‘You act as though there are no other women apart from Khadeejah’” (al-Bukhaari).
Source: Khutbah from Shaykh ‘Abdul Muhsin Al-Qasim, Imaam of Masjid An-Nabawee
Dari ‘Ummul Mu’minin ‘Aisyah Radhiyallahu Ta’ala ‘anha berkata: Rasulullah Shalallahu ‘alaihi wassalam bersabda : “Sebaik-baik kalian adalah yang paling baik terhadap keluarganya, dan aku diantara kalian adalah yang paling baik terhadap keluargaku”. (HR Tirmidzi)
Oleh Ustadz
Ada satu doa Nabi Muhammad shalallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam yang amat indah. “Ya Allah, aku berlindung pada-Mu dari hati yang tidak khusyuk, dan dari ilmu yang tidak bermanfaat, dan dari nafsu yang tidak pernah kenyang, dan dari doa yang tidak lagi…
